Dr (Col) V K Wadia is a renowned medical doctor with 35 yrs of practice. His expertise in treatment of Sex Problems, and effective result oriented counselling in Marriage & Relationship has won many accolades.

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Phone No. (Delhi) 9891152777 9891192777

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For patients unable to make a visit to the clinic personally, this option allows to obtain Sex & Relationship Counselling from Dr.Wadia over the Phone or Skype, and receive an opinion about possible treatment options.

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Marriage Counselling

A marriage older than a week, has reasons for divorce. A stitch in time saves NINE. This stitch is the ‘Marital Counselling’. Counselling, timely received & acted upon, helps prevent marriage conflicts/discords altogether; or handle them efficiently & successfully if they do occur.

Marriage counselling is an extension of the Premarital Counselling. It includes what has been dealt in detail in Premarital Counselling and therefore, it will be worthwhile reading Premarital Counselling first.

It will be pertinent to understand that Marital Counselling is not a quick fix, ready-made solution. In fact it provides no solution. Nor is it aimed at pronouncing which of the partners is at fault. It, as a matter of fact, is aimed at empowering the partners with the insight and thereby the capability, to address marriage concerns & crises on their own.

An effective counselling helps remove cloudiness of vision, blind spots and biases. It provides a conducive platform to the partners so that they are able to see clearly the grey areas, voice their differences in the open with egos unhinged, see each other’s perspective & resolve to resolve the differences. A good counselor is always able to delineate between the ‘intention’ & the ‘approach’, and convince his counselees about the same. More often than not, it is not the intention but the approach and ego which are the culprits of marital blues. The counselling helps in defining/redefining the value of relationship (Click Sex & Relationship and Relationship Counselling to read the mantras of a healthy relationship to develop a deep insight into the intricacies of human relationship). It drives home the importance of rising above ego & paying attention to ‘approach’. More often than believed, sexual incompatibility is the cause or the consequence of marriage disharmony. (Read Importance of sex and Chemistry of sex to know in detail about the relevance of sex in marriage & how to go about it.) Marriage Counselling addresses issues like importance of institution of marriage, consummation of marriage, fighting sexual monotony/boredom, enhancing sexual pleasure, mental & sexual incompatibility etc. It endeavors to hone the communication & perception skills, and to empower the partners with the capability to avoid/resolve marriage blues. And in case separation is unavoidable, counselling helps in making separation/divorce as least hurtful as possible.

Thus, Marital Counselling helps in making a marriage happy & last for ever.

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Other Articles Written By Dr Wadia

Sexual Counselling

Sexual Counselling is directed at providing the right perspective of 'sex & sexuality'. While 'sex' implies the sexual interaction, 'sexuality' encompasses a host of factors but can be summed up in simplest words as 'Sexual Personality'. Read more about Sexual Counselling to get answers to many questions that arise related to sex.

Sexual Variants & Paraphilias

It is important to understand the difference between sexual variations & Paraphilias. Sexual variations are sex acts which are variations or deviations of normal sex only and are therefore normal. Paraphilias on the other hand constitute abnormal or Pathological sexual behavior. Read about Sexual Variants & Paraphilias to learn more.

Importance of Sex

Next to survival, the most primitive & primal human instinct is sex. Inevitable or not, sex and sexuality are important for overall personality & happiness.

Humans have not been blessed with the bliss of sex for Procreation alone. It is for Pleasure, Physical & Mental health, Emotional health & most importantly Intimacy between 2 loving partners. Some people equate sexual orgasm with Spiritual orgasm too. Read further about the importance & benefits of having a healthy sex life.

Chemistry of Sex

It is naively thought that sex is natural & inborn. It is not. While the urge for sex is natural & lies between ears (mind), the act of sex is learnt & lies between thighs (body). Sex is a behavior one learns by experience & through an appropriate understanding of the Chemistry of sex. Read about the Chemistry of Sex to develop true perspective of sex & hone your sexual skills.

Sexual Myths

Sexual myths are the most rampant myths after religious myths. Let not myths thrive on quacks & quacks thrive on myths. Read this article on Counselling for Sexual Myths to learn more.

Sex Therapy

Sex therapy is the structured science of treating the sex problems with the help of both, counselling & drugs. Know what sex therapy entails & how it works. Read more on Sex Therapy to learn about the role of the mind and body in sex, the commonest sex problems in men and women and more.

Relationship Counselling

The meaning of life is a 'meaningful relationship'. The relationship can not be taken for granted but needs working up all the time. Read more on Relationship Counselling to know the mantras of a healthy relationship to develop a deep insight into the intricacies of human relationship & minimize proneness to relationship crises.

Aging and Sex

Since time immemorial, ‘Aging and Sex’, has been a burning topic. It has acquired more significance in the present context as the average human life span has increased resulting in sizeable number of old age survivors. The advancement in medical sciences has further lent a hand in making people live not only longer, but healthier and active too. And the active lifestyle includes their sex life too. Read more about Aging and Sex.

Sex and Relationship

If ever there is a meaning to life, it is a meaningful relationship. Find some mool-mantras that can help you nurture such a relationship. Read more on Sex and Relationship.

Premarital Counselling

Marriage is perhaps the most important mile-stone in a person’s life, and is many a times, referred in lighter vein as the biggest gamble. Whether man or woman, getting married often looks scary- and justifiably so because of the stakes involved. Read further about Premarital Counselling to understand the importance of the institution of marriage & prepare mentally for the marriage.

Marriage Counselling

A marriage older than a week, has reasons for divorce. A stitch in time saves NINE. This stitch is the ‘Marital Counselling’. Counselling, timely received & acted upon, helps prevent marriage conflicts/discords altogether; or handle them efficiently & successfully if they do occur. Read further on what entails in Marriage Counselling.

Adoloscent Counselling

Sudden spurt in hormones in adolescence/teenagers results in rapid physical, sexual & emotional changes. The changes are so sudden & so rapid that most teenagers are caught off guard & find it difficult to cope up with them unless specifically counseled. Read more about the importance of Adolescent Counselling.