Dr (Col) V K Wadia is a renowned medical doctor with 35 yrs of practice. His expertise in treatment of Sex Problems, and effective result oriented counselling in Marriage & Relationship has won many accolades.

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Adolescent Counselling

Sudden spurt in hormones in adolescence/teenagers results in rapid physical, sexual & emotional changes. The changes are so sudden & so rapid that most teenagers are caught off guard & find it difficult to cope up with them unless specifically counseled.

The changes in boys include hoarseness of voice, development of hairs on face (moustache & beard), in arm pits & pubic area; sudden increase in the size of Testes, chest & chin; arms becoming longer than legs leading at times to awkward movements, sudden increase of sexual libido, a strong urge to masturbate, spontaneous morning erections, night emissions etc.

Girls too go thru lot of changes like development of hairs in arm pits & pubic area; sudden increase in the size of breasts; deposition of fat in certain areas like hips & breasts giving contours; increase in the size of breasts; firmness of breasts; setting in of menstruation; development of sexual feelings; increase of sexual libido; a strong urge to masturbate etc.

Unless they have been given an effective Adolescent counselling, teenagers fail to understand the feelings & changes, resulting in lot of misconceptions, confusion, trauma, guilt & even shame. Menstruation to an uninformed girl may be traumatic presuming it is a disease or a punishment or a curse. She may have a sense of guilt- even shame. So may be the case with night emissions or bed wetting in case of boys. Both boys & girls may feel guilty for being attracted towards opposite or the same sex, and for the sexual feelings they develop. Masturbation may look a sin leading to shame & guilt. So may be with spontaneous morning Erections & wet dreams in case of boys.

Added to this, they are ignorant about sex. Whole lot of questions torment them. Whether they should be sexually active or not? If yes, then when! What is safe sex? How to avoid pregnancy? What are the implications of early pregnancy? What is safe abortion- is it legalized?

Girls tend to be having bigger stakes. It is mandatory for them to learn how to be assertive & say ‘no’.

In effect, inability to understand own body & its needs, sexual curiosity, sexual myths, inhibition about talking of sexuality, non-availability of credible info, peer pressure, proneness to risky sexual behavior because of hormonal surge, urge for sexual experimentation & sexual misadventure- all lead to confusion, anxiety, awkwardness and at times- low esteem in adolescents. Most adolescents, unless given the right kind of knowledge & awareness find themselves completely lost.

The concerns of the adolescents need to be addressed with glove hands & sound knowledge. Counselling should be confidence-inspiring, discrete, confidential and at times, unobtrusive. Counselor should be easy to converse with, have empathy & be able to break Counselor-counselee barrier effortlessly.

Adolescent Counselling arms the adolescents with the strength of knowledge that goes a long way in their growing into responsible & confident adults. Irrespective of who imparts this- whether the parents, the teachers, the doctors, the counselors, the social workers or even ‘daadi’ (the grand-mother), the irrefutable fact is that this kind of counselling is absolutely necessary.

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Other Articles Written By Dr Wadia

Sexual Counselling

Sexual Counselling is directed at providing the right perspective of 'sex & sexuality'. While 'sex' implies the sexual interaction, 'sexuality' encompasses a host of factors but can be summed up in simplest words as 'Sexual Personality'. Read more about Sexual Counselling to get answers to many questions that arise related to sex.

Sexual Variants & Paraphilias

It is important to understand the difference between sexual variations & Paraphilias. Sexual variations are sex acts which are variations or deviations of normal sex only and are therefore normal. Paraphilias on the other hand constitute abnormal or Pathological sexual behavior. Read about Sexual Variants & Paraphilias to learn more.

Importance of Sex

Next to survival, the most primitive & primal human instinct is sex. Inevitable or not, sex and sexuality are important for overall personality & happiness.

Humans have not been blessed with the bliss of sex for Procreation alone. It is for Pleasure, Physical & Mental health, Emotional health & most importantly Intimacy between 2 loving partners. Some people equate sexual orgasm with Spiritual orgasm too. Read further about the importance & benefits of having a healthy sex life.

Chemistry of Sex

It is naively thought that sex is natural & inborn. It is not. While the urge for sex is natural & lies between ears (mind), the act of sex is learnt & lies between thighs (body). Sex is a behavior one learns by experience & through an appropriate understanding of the Chemistry of sex. Read about the Chemistry of Sex to develop true perspective of sex & hone your sexual skills.

Sexual Myths

Sexual myths are the most rampant myths after religious myths. Let not myths thrive on quacks & quacks thrive on myths. Read this article on Counselling for Sexual Myths to learn more.

Sex Therapy

Sex therapy is the structured science of treating the sex problems with the help of both, counselling & drugs. Know what sex therapy entails & how it works. Read more on Sex Therapy to learn about the role of the mind and body in sex, the commonest sex problems in men and women and more.

Relationship Counselling

The meaning of life is a 'meaningful relationship'. The relationship can not be taken for granted but needs working up all the time. Read more on Relationship Counselling to know the mantras of a healthy relationship to develop a deep insight into the intricacies of human relationship & minimize proneness to relationship crises.

Aging and Sex

Since time immemorial, ‘Aging and Sex’, has been a burning topic. It has acquired more significance in the present context as the average human life span has increased resulting in sizeable number of old age survivors. The advancement in medical sciences has further lent a hand in making people live not only longer, but healthier and active too. And the active lifestyle includes their sex life too. Read more about Aging and Sex.

Sex and Relationship

If ever there is a meaning to life, it is a meaningful relationship. Find some mool-mantras that can help you nurture such a relationship. Read more on Sex and Relationship.

Premarital Counselling

Marriage is perhaps the most important mile-stone in a person’s life, and is many a times, referred in lighter vein as the biggest gamble. Whether man or woman, getting married often looks scary- and justifiably so because of the stakes involved. Read further about Premarital Counselling to understand the importance of the institution of marriage & prepare mentally for the marriage.

Marriage Counselling

A marriage older than a week, has reasons for divorce. A stitch in time saves NINE. This stitch is the ‘Marital Counselling’. Counselling, timely received & acted upon, helps prevent marriage conflicts/discords altogether; or handle them efficiently & successfully if they do occur. Read further on what entails in Marriage Counselling.

Adoloscent Counselling

Sudden spurt in hormones in adolescence/teenagers results in rapid physical, sexual & emotional changes. The changes are so sudden & so rapid that most teenagers are caught off guard & find it difficult to cope up with them unless specifically counseled. Read more about the importance of Adolescent Counselling.